How to Nail a Serious Guy

If you’re tired of attracting the wrong kind of guys, then it is your lucky day to turn things around.

• Change Your Looks

It is true when people say ‘your looks draw people to you’, but keeping them is a whole different ball game. Attracting them is our goal and our key word is looks. A man is definitely moved by what he sees. So let him see you. Remember, for guys, it’s not how expensive you dress, it’s more about how your dress flatters your figure. Oh Yes! You know they see that. But remember ladies, go decent and not trashy because trashy is a total turn off. So to get the kind of guy you desire, you need to dress the part. Let your looks demand their attention without you having to ask.

• Visit New Places

If the places you have been visiting haven’t shown forth so far, then it’s time to make room for new places. No one is asking you to compromise your values just to meet guys, but there are more places in the world to meet good guys than just clubs, restaurants, cinemas, church……..how about Libraries, conferences, parks,……there are a host of places you are yet to visit in that city. 

If a serious guy is what you’re targeting, then you need to be willing to enlarge your horizon. Get going girls.

• Pick Up a New Hobby

Men are naturally attracted to like-minded ladies. Women who possess a skill or a hobby. It shows their virtuousness and assures him that you’re someone he can count on. Trust me, no man wants a liability. He wants an asset! Be that asset. Occupy your time with a craft or an interest to keep you mentally active and easy to engage with. What is that thing you love to do? Put your heart to it. Let him see that you are both responsible and accountable.

• Put Yourself Out There

Some people wear their emotions on their sleeves. They have been hurt one too many times and automatically hold back and end up losing out on a really good guy. What are you really afraid of? Every failed relationship or encounter has been an opportunity to learn something new and get it right next time. So pull off that past, stop wearing it! Put yourself out there! Meet new people and give them a chance to thrive. It would never work, if you do not allow it to. There is definitely someone out there looking for everything you are. So if you do not put yourself out there, how would you be found?

• Be Graceful

Men are generally attracted to confident ladies. Ladies who can hold their own in any setting. If gracefulness does not define you, then you will need to learn the art of gracefulness. It starts with your carriage. How you walk, how you talk, how you act, even how you stand. They all come in, both the voiced and unvoiced expressions. The truth is, how you see yourself is how people will see you. If you see yourself as beautiful and confident; when you dress and act the part, people will buy into it. Let every step you take, the way you stand tall and express yourself exude grace. This will definitely attract like-minded guys. However, remember not to cross over to the over confident zone, because that can be a total put off for guys.